A closer look at January shows that the 1 through the 3 are not days where your resolutions are going to be easy to keep. Start them on January 4 or 5, and see if that's better. January 6 and 7 are excellent for socializing or boasting, while January 8 and 9, stay home, and don't whine to those who love you. Avoid them. January 10 through 13, you have my permission to come out of hiding - in fact, cling to your group, while January 14 and 15 is a good day for witty and sexy repartee with someone who finds you attractive, but who for you only stokes vanity. Geez, does that make you feel guilty! January 16 through 20 are going to be weird, but sexy if you want, and January 21 through 23, the moon is in your sun sign. As the moon is nearly new, you're going to have a major comeuppance, or revelation or otherwise possibly-bum-trip. Take a 20-mile hike in freezing rain if you want to feel better, or at least provide distraction. You guys suffer so beautifully. January 24 and 25 should find you willing to share, while January 26 and 27, definitely finds you willing to blab. January 28 through 31 are going to be tricky - you'll be impatient with someone who deserves pity. Some people look at the chessboard and can't even see one move ahead, y'know?